Tuesday, February 2, 2010

LOVE is in the AIR


Valentines day is fast approaching. Expressing our love means not only during valentines. We should nurture our relationship if we want it to last forever and according to experts relationship has a cycle.

* In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their unconventional behavior or habit. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to do anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love...

* After a few years of excitement love fades. It's the natural cycle of every relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother touch is not always welcome only when it happens, and your spouse's bad habits, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

* The 3rd Stage was the symptoms of breaking down, at this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" and as you and your spouse reflect on the excitement of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages or relationship breakdown. People blame their spouse/partner for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage/relationship for fulfillment. According to experts again extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, excessive TV, or abusive substances and temporarily you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Read this carefully because I read it over and over again because i want my relationship to last forever.

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

Love is indeed a decision not just a feelings.

4 comments:

TMB said...

I absolutely LOVE this post! thank you its very deep =)

TMB said...

I absolutely LOVE this post! thank you its very deep =)

The Girl Next Door Grows Up said...

Very true!

I am following you from MBC!

Loveleng said...

Thanks TMB...i want to say i've visited your site but don't have message box..But i am visiting your site always...

Hi GirlNextdoor also following you...

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