Mother's Pride

My Wordless Wednesday

Just love to picture my little Lovi she's growing each day no words can describe her for a mother like me.

A daughter is a miracle that never ceases to be miraculous...full of beauty and forever beautiful...loving and caring and truly amazing.--Deanna Beisser

World of Make Believe

This verse rings a bell to my ears because when I was still single and so idealistic marriage for me and building a family was as simple as 1,2,3. I believed then that as simple as loving each other can make our world go rounds. 

But children came and problems arise my wonderful merry go round world crumbled one by one into small pieces. I thought then that having a simple family of my own can take away all my loneliness that my mother left behind. 

As of this moment, I still felt the loneliness sometimes especially when I had to argue with my husband with so many nonsense discussions but I still thank God for giving me a loving, responsible and not so perfect husband (kung hindi wala ng thrill). 

Sometimes before I also believed that marrying someone can make my life complete but later on in my married life I have to realize that being married doesn't make me a complete human being, but the complement that me and my husband always made to each another makes us a better individual just like what in the bible said, 

Proverbs 27:17

"As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another". so we can consider our spouse as the other individuals that can sharpen us and vise versa.

I am currently reading a book recently publish by Bo Sanchez though I was not able to download the entire book first the chapter only, but it's already out in the market (pero wala pang pambili hehehe). It touches my heart when I've read this, that according to Mother Theresa, "that the hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread". 

Mother Theresa was right, we are all longing to love and to be love. My husband and I had so many arguments in our 10 years of marriage, we had so many differences like family backgrounds, different principles, different goals, different likes. 

We are two totally different individuals, but I may say that we have one thing in common that we know how to define the word love in particular. I may say that I was lucky enough to found someone like my husband that despite our differences he doesn't stop there from loving me. 

And I believed that before we venture in this so called married life we are so sure that we are already two different mature individuals who talk openly about how not to hurt anybody and feel sorry for ourselves. 

So if someone's trying to ruin our relationship, I believed that they must be someone who's credible enough to believe in what they are doing. Because after many trials and after reading the first chapter of Bo's book, I am now sure that as long as we love each other we can survive, as long as we have God in the middle we will always stay where we are.

Batter Late than Never

They say it is better Late than Never...Happy Birthday to the two most influential people in my life...Mom( July 4) and Dad (July 6) Happy Birthday!!!. They are the main reason why I still believed in Lasting Love. That despite their differences they survive this cruel world and the so called married life.

And this video goes for them. Thank you, Ma and Tang for making our family a loving one.

Facing the Giants - More To This Life

I've never written on this blog for quite sometimes because I might hurt someone's feelings unintentionally, and who will read my blog accidentally misinterpret my writings.

We have to face it, blogging sometimes becomes an outlet or shock absorber especially by someone like me who was so emotional.

These past few months It didn't feel right because of some unavoidable circumstances brought about by the net. I lost interest in surfing the net (baka ano pang makita at mabasa ko) and into blogging also. 

But somehow I've realized that no one can dictate me on what to do especially if that person doesn't have any credibility at all (bato bato sa langit tamaan may bukol hehehe). 

While writing this, me and my husband just finished watching the movie entitled "FACING THE GIANT", well that was our favorite past time to watch a tear-jerking movie together (so lucky to have husband who was not ashamed to cry with me for a very wonderful movie just like this) because according to oldies look for a man who was not ashamed to cry in front of you, for surely it was not a sign of weakness but a proof that he will be a loving and caring man you've ever known. 

And proven old people never goes wrong because they've been there and experience it. Facing the Giant was a great film of FAITH, BELIEVE IN GOD and believe in yourself. 

It says when God is with you who is against you. While watching this movie, I've realized that what happened in our lives had something to do to make our life more meaningful to be more proactive. People who hate us, who will curse us without our knowledge, who will say something bad about us without even trying to know us before they judge us. 

They are all part of life, and I still thank God for them. For without them, my life would not be as meaningful and as colorful as it may seem. To God be the Glory.

Blame me Mr.President

One of my Facebook friends wrote this on her wall "My mind is on Philippine Election right now...I Am sad for I am not there to be a part of it". Reading this just makes me sad because unknown to her we have the same feelings. 

This is the first time that I didn't participate in the Philippine Election because I am now living in Malaysia, but that doesn't mean that I am not aware of it. There was no single day from the start of the campaign that I didn't look for a single article on the net, watching every debate being uploaded on youtube, and asking friends whose the most credible candidate qualified for the position.

I bet for Gordon and Bayani for personal choices since I know how they work. I live in Olongapo for 1 year when my sister stays there who happened to be a wife of a US navy, so I know how to organize the Philippines if Gordon will win. 

Bayani, on the other hand, shows how he clean up manila as an MMDA officer. But people have different opinion and principles really. Recent news but not yet confirm NoyNoy was on the lead and Many Villar was already conceding and congratulate NoyNoy. 

Honestly, I don't like NoyNoy because I know he is not capable of being the next president of our country but it is better to choose him rather that Erap (well this is my own personal opinion choose the lesser evil). Now that NoyNoy is leading and if it happens to be that he will become the next president of the Philippines I just hope each and everyone who voted for him help him become a better president, a better leader and stop blaming each other. 

Because according to Albert Ellis an American psychologist “The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.” 

I will not say I just hope the Filipino people will learn from their mistake but rather let us all pray for the betterment of our country and for the betterment of the Filipino people.