Miss MOM

Sometimes there are words left unsaid, questions better left unanswered, tears waiting to be fall. Sometimes we tend to love people on our own way, Sometimes we think that's the best way, but for them it wasn't the best or not even good enough. People tend to know only what the eyes can see but forget to feel what the hearts can say. Now I understand why you once left me and told me Don't go through life, rather grow through life. I know you love me the best way you can, in you own way...Now I know, now I know. Thanks for everything MOM. I just hope i did make you proud.

This E-mail Makes me Laugh

My Cousin send me this e-mail and it makes me laugh. And gave me an idea what man really wants. Read form start to finish for Housewife like me for sure you're gonna love it. I blog this for my husband to read hehehe.... HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a carpenter 10. a plumber 11. a mechanic 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer 20. a good listener 21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic 26. warm 27. attentive 28. gallant 29. intelligent 30. funny 31. creative 32. tender 33. strong 34. understanding 35. tolerant 36. prudent 37. ambitious 38. capable 39. courageous 40. determined 41. true 42. dependable 43. passionate 44. compassionate WITHOUT FORGETTING TO: 45. give her compliments regularly 46. love shopping 47. be honest 48. be very rich 49. not stress her out 50. not look at other girls AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO: 51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself 52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself 53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes IT IS VERY IMPORTANT: 54. Never to forget: * birthdays * anniversaries * arrangements she makes. And for Woman here's HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY hehehe enjoy reading 1. Show up naked 2. Bring alcohol *Life is simple for them.. What can you say men blogger?hehehe...

Kitchen Technology

Technology made our life easier. It brings so many improvements with our everyday living. And how I wish I had all this high tech gadget in my house specially in the kitchen where all the moms out there spent most of their time preparing food for the family just like me. And how I wish I had this gadget that I found in the site of Better Homes and Gardens Its an Icebox from Salton . How happy I would be if while cooking I can watch, listen to my favorite music, search for my day to day recipe and checking my Facebook without bringing my laptop along and having the damn thought of getting it wet and getting it mess.

Health Matters Most

From the day that I've found out that I was afflicted with cancer (no worries I was already treated after undergone 2 major operations, Multiple Body Scan and unstoppable series of blood test). I began realizing how important life is. It's not the Money on your bank account that counts, It's not how big your house is, It's not how many Friends you have on your list. What matters most when we are talking about life was only Him and You (God and You). When your body gives in, all of the things that matter will soon fade out and starting to analyze and ask questions "What things that really matters to me". That's when I began searching for a possible answer and solution. Good thing internet was already in existance. Though of course prayers are still the best answers and solution to all. So while searching I found out this and still keeping it on my documents...Hope this one could add to your health benefits.
Correct timing to take water

Correct timing to take water, will maximize its effectiveness to Human body. Two (02) glass of water - After waking up - Helps activate internal organs One (01) glasses of water - 30 minutes before meal - Help digestion One (01) glass of water - Before taking a bath - Helps lower blood pressure One (01) glass of water - Before sleep - To avoid stroke or heart attack Plus additional 3 glasses in between Total of 8glasses a day.

Inspirational E-mail

Someone just sent me an inspirational email that I wanted to share. For the last 3 years we had our tribulation in our family. We failed on our business venture so my husband force to work overseas so he can pay all the accumulated debt. Cancer afflicted me and it scared me to death but thank God I was treated. Mother-in-Law died which I consider one of the best friend I had and a lot of stressful happenings in between. But with all these trial, me and my husband still here standing and I believed without our knowledge we had follow some of Mother Teresa's empowering lines which I've just read and I want to share it with you. According to Mother Teresa:

People are unreasonable, illogical and self-centered.
LOVE THEM ANYWAY

If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.
DO GOOD ANYWAY.

If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
SUCCEED ANYWAY.

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
DO GOOD ANYWAY.

Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
BE HONEST AND FRANK ANYWAY.

The biggest person with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest person with the smallest mind.
THINK BIG ANYWAY.

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
BUILD ANYWAY.

People who really want help may attack you if you help them.
HELP THEM ANYWAY.

Give the world the best you have and you may get hurt.
GIVE THE WORLD THE BEST YOU'VE ANYWAY.

And after all the trials and storm, sunshine came because I believed, we in the family gave the WORLD the BEST we can ANYWAY and here's the proof

My Eldest Son with POP after the recognition

My Middle Child during the recognition

And me accepting my crown as Bb Pilipinas hehehe joke.

After all the hardwork and pain I've got my Masteral Diploma.

And Finally the most fulfilling one after 3 years of not always being together here we are now loving, laughing and living as a family. (Sa Hirap at Ginhawa)Thru tick and Thin...

Ouch! Muscle Cramps

This morning my son wake me up and telling me and his father that his legs was in pain. I remember that yesterday since it was weekend we had our swimming day. His father told me that it was just a muscle cramp. But since I am a worried mother and don't want to see my child in pain (all mother will agree on this, I felt his pain). I search what muscle cramp was and the effective treatment and this is what I've found:

Some of the effective solutions for muscle cramp

1. A Banana daily for the magnesium in it used to ward off the nighttime leg cramps

2. Sleeping with socks on to keep the feet warm.

3. Use Ice or heating Packs for immediate relief.

4. Stretch the muscles as much as possible.

Just to know the root of it all I've also search what is a muscle cramp? Is thus defined as an involuntarily and forcibly contracted muscle that does not relax. This causes a visible or palpable hardening of the involved muscle. It is merely a blessing in disguise because I my self always had a leg muscle cramps. I am just ignoring it because of lots of activity on the side. But now i think its time for me to find a better solution not just for me but for my son own sake. By the way Is muscle cramp hereditary?

Some Things in Life are Free

One of my friends message gave me a link on how to have some gift give aways just by blogging. She told me to just visit liza's site, "so called life: Blog Giveaways"... i'ts a free giveways of a blogger mom like me. I am really beginning to love this blogging industry hehehe. Check it out you and me might win the prize. And this is how to join;

1. Simply leave your comment to her give-away post here.
2. Link her or add her to your blog list if you haven't added her yet;
3. And be a follower.

That Simple! Everyone can join. Picking up of winners will be at the end of the month.

And the prizes? for sure mom's like me or even women of the Millennium will going too like this or even love it so join! Join! Join! by the way here are some pictures for the prices.

What is good about blogging?

I am a late bloomer when it comes to blogging. I've just started days ago and becoming so serious about it. I'm beginning to like it and love it. Though I started this site years ago and already have some other site (pampalipas oras lang) but becoming serious about it was not on my nerve until suddenly became bored. And reading some blogs of professional bloggers inspired me. And I've discovered that there are something good about blogging.

1. First on the list was, you can gain lots of friends thru blogging. Blogging is good for our social life.(Please link me so i can follow you I am a friendly kind of person hehehe)

2. You can learned from experiences of other people with just a click of the mouse.

3. You can share and express feelings thru blogging without hurting anybody.

4. No one will criticize and crucify you for having a bad grammar. (sensya na matagal nabakante sa pagsusulat e)

5. You will become more creative by customizing your site. (HayopTalagaML na yan, napwersa tuloy akong pag aralan matuto nalang sana ako whehehe).

6. You can also earn by blogging and become so rich out of it. (ooops joke lang) but really you can earn extra cash without leaving the four corners of your room. (Though i don't have yet my first paycheck but theres a saying "patience is a virtue" nakakain ba yon?)

7. According to study of Scientific American June 2008 Issue. Blogging is good for our health because it serves as a stress releaser, it improves memory and sleep. (Totoo kaya ito sa sleep bakit parang nagka insomia ako nung magstart akong mag blog, anyway oks lang afterall it was really a stress free habit).

8. Blogging can kill your boredoms. (24/7 na nga naka hook e...ano yong amoy na yon?....ooooppps i forgot I'm cooking something for snacks got to go...

My Extra Ordinary Day in an Ordinary World

This is my normal routine for the day:

8:00AM---Early wake up duty...Time to cook breakfast.

9:00AM---Start my household chore while my dwarfs are playing.

10:00AM---- Bath time and some interesting snacks for them.

10:30AM---Sitdown for a little homeschooling.

12:00Noon---Time for lunch and TV after.

2:00PM---Nap Time

3:00PM---Merienda time

4:00PM---Some serious Coloring and Writing plus ABC on the side

5:00P.M---Prepare something for dinner

7:00PM---Hubby is coming, dinner time and some chit chat for the kids.

9:00PM---Story Telling Time

10:00PM---yahoooooooooo time for blogging till the hour of dawn.

By the way some of the statements are false...pictures are added for your own judgement hehehe. More Picture here. Got to go Lovi is finish with her early morning ritual. I'mmmm coming honey.

Make Sure dear that is a very yummy dinner.

Lovi with her cooking utensils

Goofing around

It's Bible reading time

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Online Tutorial

Before lying my back to bed and close my eyes totally into a world known as dreamland hehehe. Just want to leave a short review about the site that I've discovered (Actually I am very Happy and Amaze how the internet works, I just wanna share). It's a site about how to learned (HayopTalagaML) the HTML in a step by step tutorial, not as hard as I've expected. It tells on the site that with HTML I can create my own site (dreams really do come true... how I wish I can create my original template on my blog hehe).Because the tutorial teaches everything about HTML, and I found out that HTML is easy to learn I am starting to like it and hopefully create my own website in the future. And here are some of the topic to learn: Elements, Attribute,Formatting, Style, Link and more. I just gave you a little background about the site just in case you will be interested and just starting your life as a blogger. I think knowing and learning the HTML language is a one portion of blogging. Unless you don't want to have a colorful and creative blog.

This is a sample of a HTML script using WordPress, NotePad is also ok (Though still don't know how to convert to see the outcome hopefully in the future. Lets wait and see for the result. matuto sana ako hehe.)

And this is the website w3schools.com try to check it out if you want to learn basic and advance HTML.

Thanks to Mr. A

This is what I hate about blogging since I am a normal human being with a lot of impatience on my nerve. Well actually I am just trying to renovate, to beautify, and define some portion on my blog which I think not so suitable with my character. When suddenly internet was cut then the connection became slower, while my design was a mess since I am trying to customize it a little bit. HayopTalagaML na yan. Now I don't even have a nice and presentable blog. Good thing I have Mr A. on my side. I've learned from his blog the 10 Simple Tips on how to improve your blog and your traffic too (whoooohooo so excited to gain lots of friends and learn from them too). By the way Mr. A was a blogger who happened to be on my list just yesterday who's not so selfish to share his knowledge. Try visiting his site for sure you will not regret it.

New Title but same old Character

Here I go again, my insomnia strikes back. It's almost 1:30 midnight and I'm still here blogging. Though I really want to sleep, honestly my eyes are already closing but my mind still active and thinking for so many things. Some fear, insecurities uncertainties of life. Mmmmmm anyways blogging was the best way to kill time and be on a relaxation mode.

By the way I am renovating my site. New template, new title, new description but with same old character and same old feelings. I am going to change my title (still searching for appropriate one) much better and much suitable for my blog. Actually the first one that i used (LOVELENG WORLD) was a suggestion from my hubby because of my pet name leng. Though I am still thinking now of something like Inconsistent on the title because I became more like that from the day I stayed home with my children (love them, love them not) hehehe find out why on my next succeeding post because i will blog every bit of it . So bare with me for a couple of days just in case it was not so nice to visit my site because of some reconstruction. Okey that's it for today I better put my self to bed before my hubby get wild and rape me hehehe...

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Trying Hard

I am not a good writer, actually I cannot even write a whole story. Pero I love expressing my feelings. Kakainggit nga yung nakakapag blog everyday, nakakasulat kahit ano, haaaay buhay parang life. Minsan iniisip ko siguro kung magaling lang ako sa composition and writing daming maiinspired sa mga kwento ko . Pero siguro may plano ang diyos sa aken. Pero upon reading some blogs of other people I was inspired to write na ren kahit pakonti konti lalo na ngayon jobless, though I have other site na may laman na ren kahit papano, namimiss ko na nga kasi di ko na sya naupdate now ko lang na visit ulet kasi gusto ko ilink dito wala lang baka gustong basahin ng mga bibisita (kung meron man hehehe),lately kase nabusy sa Facebook kaya ayon sa facebook nalang naguupdate. But this one I might do it more frequently and personal for my self. Sabi nga ng hubby ko. Kung naiinip ka magaerobics ka (para naman ang taba taba ko no), magsurf sa internet (yun na nga lang ginagawa ko 24/7 na nga ata e. pikit lang pahinga ko hehehe joke), magtutor ka (susme kung tatlong anak mo nga nauubusan na ako ng boses tututor pa ako). Actually librarian po ako before for 10 years bago naging jobless at naging mother of 3 wonderful kids. Dala lang ng pagkakataon kailangan tumigil, sakripisyo ika nga para sa mga bata kaya ng mabasa ko yung blog ni kuya kuri (Kuya pa copy ha with your permission, for the sake of blogging hahaha afterall na inspired mo naman ako).

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TO MY CHILD

Just for this morning,

I am going to smile when I see your face and laugh when I feel like crying.

Just for this morning,

I will let you choose what you want to wear, and smile and say how perfect it is.

Just for this morning,

I am going to step over the laundry and pick you up and take you to the park to play.

Just for this morning,

I will leave the dishes in the sink, and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.

Just for this afternoon,

I will unplug the telephone and keep the computer off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles.

Just for this afternoon,

I will not yell once, not even a tiny grumble when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck, and I will buy you one if he comes by.

Just for this afternoon,

I won't worry about what you are going to be when you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are concerned.

Just for this afternoon,

I will let you help me bake cookies, and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.

Just for this afternoon,

I will take us to McDonald's and buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys.

Just for this evening,

I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.

Just for this evening,

I will let you splash in the tub and not get angry.

Just for this evening,

I will let you stay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.

Just for this evening,

I will snuggle beside you for hours, and miss my favourite TV shows.

Just for this evening when I run my finger through your hair as you pray,

I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given.

I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children,

the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms.

The mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly and screaming inside that little body

And when I kiss you goodnight

I will hold you a little tighter, a little longer.

It is then, that I will thank God for you,

and ask him for nothing, except one more day...

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Hirap ng walang trabaho, kala nila masarap, sabi nga ng kanta... kakainis ang ganitong buhaaaaayyyy. Buti nalang may internet (Thanks to my techy husband). Buti nalang may mga anak ako na pinagkaka abalahan, buti nalang may asawa akong pagka bait bait, buti na lang sarap ng ulam ko ngayon buttered shrimp luto ni hubby bago nag work. hehehe sarap pa rin pala ng LIFE afterall.

1st blog for 2010

Belated HAPPY NEW YEAR to All. This is me…hehehe pag bored. I was quite busy this past few months(migrating, holidays, etc. etc.). And it cease into my mind that I was already 35 and just started my life all over again. Why I say so, because after 35 years of existence here I am starting my life all over again, no job, no careers with 3 kids to take care of para ngayon lang ako magiging nanay from the day I got married. Well actually we are currently staying right here in Malaysia and while we’re here I am going to write about my life, love, laugh together with my 3 wonderful kids.(Who cares anyway, sabi ko nga nobody cares if your life was miserable so you better be happy, so wala lang this serve as my chronicle page, bago pa ako masiraan ng ulo)



These are my 3 wonderful kids. Dale my oldest the one with a frown face. I don’t know why he always have this expression of displeasure lagi naman siyang ganyan. There are so many things that we are not complimenting to each other, specially when he’s not in the mood. He is more of a PAPA’s boy maybe. Sabi nya nga because only now that he is with his father. Matagal din kasi nilang di nakasama si ARNOLD (Arnold is my husband just in case you want to know). He work overseas for about 3 years at ngayon nga heto at kasama na nya kami.  The one who’s smiling was lovi my youngest, my apple of my eyes, my angel, my darling. The one who always makes me smile, who gave me hope when I am about to give up (parang familiar song yon a hehehe). The last one whose on the far right was PJ my middle child. The most sweetest and loving but with the most hardheaded of them all. Pag sinabing ayaw, ayaw di mo na pedeng pilitin or else magugulo ang mundo mo hehehe. So this is where it started it all. They are the reason why I am here, in the middle of my life spending nothing but fulfilling life.